zo binnen zo buiten Innerlijk werk
Wat ik aanbied, beoefen ik zelf.
Ik lever niets wat ik niet dagelijks oefen.
Innerlijk Werk betekent voor mij het volgende:
Ik Ben
Ik onderzoek wie ik in wezen ben, voorbij mijn rollen, overtuigingen en patronen.
Ik oefen mij in het gronden in mijn eigen innerlijke impuls, zodat wat ik doe voortkomt uit een liefdevol scheppend Ik en niet uit angst, aanpassing of behoefte aan erkenning.
Value
Ik leer mijn capaciteiten zichtbaar maken en verbinden met werkelijke behoeften, die van mijzelf én die van anderen. Ik onderzoek eerlijk wat ik te brengen heb en wat ik ontvang. Ik oefen mij in een gezonde balans tussen geven en nemen.
Property
Ik neem verantwoordelijkheid voor wat van mij is: mijn tijd, mijn arbeid, mijn geld, mijn talent, mijn grenzen. Ik onderzoek hoe ik omga met grond, arbeid en kapitaal, in mijzelf en in de wereld om mij heen, en hoe dat recht doet aan individu én gemeenschap, aan vrij én samen.
Organization
Ik onderzoek hoe ik samenwerk. Ik kijk eerlijk naar mijn omgang met macht, invloed, zeggenschap en leiderschap. Ik oefen mij in het creëren van structuren waarin vrij, gelijk en samen werkelijk tegelijkertijd kunnen bestaan.
Relationship
Ik neem mijn relaties serieus met mijzelf, met jou, met de ander, met de wereld. Ik onderzoek mijn communicatie, mijn verwachtingen, mijn projecties en mijn vermogen tot werkelijk luisteren. Ik oefen mij in eerlijkheid, liefde en vertrouwen.
Earth
Ik verbind mijn innerlijke ontwikkeling met de werkelijkheid van de aarde. Ik onderzoek hoe mijn levensstijl, mijn werk en mijn keuzes zich verhouden tot natuurlijke grenzen en levende systemen. Ik oefen mij in een manier van leven die duurzaam is, innerlijk én uiterlijk.
Innerlijk Werk is voor mij geen traject dat ik jou aanbied. Het is een weg die ik zelf ga en waarop jij welkom bent om mee te lopen.
These are the steps to arrive at your own path of schooling*
You: write straight from the heart
What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? Let the words be unscripted. Also say why it is so hard to do what you want to do, to be who you want to be: where your focus slips, where discipline gets thin.
Me: read your text from the six keys
I receive your text and read it with gentle focus. With the six keys - I Am, Value, Ownership, Organization, Relationship, Earth - and their shadows, I make visible what needs light and what needs air.
I come back to you with questions that open.
You: answer with heart and head
You answer the questions feeling and thinking. You express in words or images what you suspect, what you see, what you do not yet dare. Thus clarity grows: exactly fitting to where you are now.
Me: give you exercises
You will receive a minimum of six exercises, one per key.
- To get your I am grounding,
- your Value flow,
- Property taking what is needed,
- Organization to emerge from the middle,
- Relationship honest and alive,
- with the Earth to act in real contact.
You do the exercises on your own time.
Each exercise is a door.
You decide when you step in.
Why is practicing courage good to do?
- Because you feel that something new in you wants to begin, but you don't yet know what or how.
- Because you long for clarity about who you are and what is truly yours.
- Because you not only want to understand, but you want to live what you know.
- Because you feel that the old no longer works, and you want to focus on the new.
- Because you want to discover what is right for you.
- Because you want to bring more peace and rhythm to your daily work and life.
- Because you want to practice listening to and learning to trust your intuition.
- Because you want to experience the connection between inner development and social renewal.
- Because you want to learn to stand where it gets exciting, without losing yourself.
- Because you feel that your personal path has meaning for the greater good.
- Because you want to practice acting from your heart, even when your head doubts.
- Because you feel that fear often holds you back, and you want to discover what lives underneath.
- Because you learn through experience, not explanation.
- Because you are curious about who you are when you really take on something.
- Because you feel that courage must be gentle and firm at the same time.
- Because you want to be confident in your own perceptions and decisions.
- Because you find that each courageous step also changes something in the world around you.
- Because you want to learn the art of living for the love of life.
The creation of the prize is also an exercise
Free
€ 150,--
This is the minimum I wish to receive to feel equalized
Equal
€ 350,--
This is what you can contribute and gives me room to cover all costs
Together
€ 550,--
This is what you want to contribute and gives me extra room to develop further
The *customized training pathways fit into the whole of the Collaborative Living Course and/or counseling
of your business by
Economy Transformers.
Prices include VAT.
Hiking together?
Als het niet lukt om te oefenen. Je stelt het uit, je vindt de oefening stom, of er komt gewoon niets van. Dat hoort ook bij de weg. Want waar de oefening stokt, ligt vaak precies datgene wat gezien wil worden. Wanneer je merkt dat je er niet doorheen komt, dat discipline een muur lijkt, of dat je moed zoek is, kunnen we samen verder kijken. Dan nodig ik je uit voor een persoonlijk gesprek, live of via Zoom. We beginnen met een eerste sessie (€ 100 vrij, € 200 gelijk, of € 300 samen*).
If you want to continue after that, we will conduct a balance talk: a moment of tuning in, not just about money, but about what is right between you and me, so that there is balance between giving and taking.
A *first interview takes one and a half to two hours. Prices are inclusive of VAT. Should the free rate also fail, we additionally conduct an immediate balance talk. Price should not be a reason not to do Customized Training Pathways.
About Doing Customized Training Pathways
Doing custom training paths is always an exercise of the will. You take a step that you find exciting, and precisely because of that you free your will. Each trial of courage sharpens the power with which you are present in the world, clear and rooted.
By doing the exercises regularly, you learn to truly live your star or your I Am. You express who you are inwardly outwardly. In this way you work, simply and concretely, towards a free, equal & society.
At first it may simmer, sometimes you fall back or the flow seems to stall. But those who keep going will find that something begins to move, a quiet, loving force that gives direction, that awakens meaning, and that makes your life coincide more and more with who you really are.
Inspiration
"The reason these exercises work is that they are rooted in spiritual truth."
“I had started training in manual therapy, but I doubted if I could do it. Jac asked me to write down what my real expectations and fears were. That was difficult, but at the same time liberating: I was invited to reflect on what was really alive in me, exactly as it was, at a critical and testing time. Jac read that, or rather, he listened with full attention to what I had penned down, and then wrote guidance that respected my hopes and my fears, but most of all me as a human being. With that encouragement, it was not difficult to do the exercises and find the peace I needed. It helped me take the training with more openness, to learn and enjoy it, and it helped me succeed. Many lessons, such as perceiving my thinking exactly as it is in the moment, without judgment, but rather with love, have stayed with me. The reason these exercises work is that they are rooted in spiritual truth. Or, put another way, they are based on those life facts that you can only discover by looking inward."
Rory O'Connor
Dublin, Ireland
"Jac's guidance helped me to dare to stand still in that forest," he said."
“I had the opportunity to be one of the first to be able to do a pathway with Jac. For as long as I can remember, I have struggled with the question of 'who am I really?' Like everyone around me was walking their path and I was always just picking paths through the trees. That was the reason I became a participant in the Learning Art of Living Together. That helped, but still all my musings felt like a tangle of cooked spaghetti. Jac saw this and offered me his help. He asked me to put my spaghetti knit unstructured on paper and send it to him. In it he found topics to discuss, both during a walk and via email. He gave me exercises to work with. Within a few weeks the spaghetti unraveled a bit, allowing me to make leaps in my own development. I believe Jac's guidance helped me dare to stand still in that forest. Just sitting together on a tree trunk and feeling the ground. And then I suddenly knew who I am. My path became clear and that is what I am walking."
Priscilla Rovers
Almere Oosterwold
"Jac's exercises made me look at myself more lovingly and patiently."
“Ik deed Innerlijk Werk omdat ik steeds tegen mijn 'schaduwen' opbotste, wat me veel energie kostte en waardoor ik soms wilde opgeven. De oefeningen van Jac lieten me liefdevoller en geduldiger naar mezelf kijken, en gaven me vertrouwen om toch telkens door te gaan. Niet door, zoals ik mijn hele leven gewend was, door te gaan door te 'beuken', maar door af en toe stil te staan en mezelf liefdevol toe te spreken. De feedback van Jac inspireerde ook mijn eigen invulling van één van de oefeningen te maken. Een andere oefening (nl. mijn innerlijke wijze versus mijn interne 'wethouder Hekking') legde voor mij heel duidelijk mijn interne proces bloot, waardoor ik er beter naar kon kijken en beter kon begrijpen waar die altijd kritische 'Hekking' vandaan kwam."
Laurien van der Vaart
Haarlem
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