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Als je vragen hebt of wat dan ook, je kunt altijd contact met me opnemen door te bellen of te mailen. De telefoon neem ik niet altijd op, maar spreek gerust in. En mails beantwoord ik meestal dezelfde dag nog, maar in ieder geval binnen twee dagen.
"The reason these exercises work is that they are rooted in spiritual truth."
“I had started training in manual therapy, but I doubted if I could do it. Jac asked me to write down what my real expectations and fears were. That was difficult, but at the same time liberating: I was invited to reflect on what was really alive in me, exactly as it was, at a critical and testing time. Jac read that, or rather, he listened with full attention to what I had penned down, and then wrote guidance that respected my hopes and my fears, but most of all me as a human being. With that encouragement, it was not difficult to do the exercises and find the peace I needed. It helped me take the training with more openness, to learn and enjoy it, and it helped me succeed. Many lessons, such as perceiving my thinking exactly as it is in the moment, without judgment, but rather with love, have stayed with me. The reason these exercises work is that they are rooted in spiritual truth. Or, put another way, they are based on those life facts that you can only discover by looking inward."
Rory O'Connor
Dublin, Ireland
"Jac's guidance helped me to dare to stand still in that forest," he said."
“I had the opportunity to be one of the first to be able to do a pathway with Jac. For as long as I can remember, I have struggled with the question of 'who am I really?' Like everyone around me was walking their path and I was always just picking paths through the trees. That was the reason I became a participant in the Learning Art of Living Together. That helped, but still all my musings felt like a tangle of cooked spaghetti. Jac saw this and offered me his help. He asked me to put my spaghetti knit unstructured on paper and send it to him. In it he found topics to discuss, both during a walk and via email. He gave me exercises to work with. Within a few weeks the spaghetti unraveled a bit, allowing me to make leaps in my own development. I believe Jac's guidance helped me dare to stand still in that forest. Just sitting together on a tree trunk and feeling the ground. And then I suddenly knew who I am. My path became clear and that is what I am walking."
Priscilla Rovers
Almere Oosterwold
"Jac's exercises made me look at myself more lovingly and patiently."
“I participated in the Customized Scholingsweg because I kept bumping up against my 'shadows' (in other words, getting into the danger and strategy triangles) when performing my master's thesis, which was costing me a lot of energy and sometimes made me want to give up. Jac's exercises made me look at myself more lovingly and patiently, and gave me confidence to keep going anyway. Not, as I was used to all my life, by continuing by 'pounding', but by standing still now and then and speaking to myself lovingly. Jac's feedback also inspired my own interpretation of one of the exercises. Another exercise (i.e. my inner sage versus my internal 'Alderman Hekking') exposed very clearly for me my internal process, allowing me to look at it more closely and better understand where that always critical 'Hekking' came from. "
Laurien van der Vaart
Haarlem
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